I am shocked at what I found. How do I approch/confront my wife about this?

you defently need to talk to her about this, i mean i don't have anything against abortion i mean i will never do it but i am not against it but only if that person was d or not ready to bring a child in this world, but she cares more about her body, and what not to have a child, i mean she is pretty much blaiming a child for any problems and that is not right at all, yes you have to change you life for a child but that is not a bad thing. i mean my mom was 16 and dad was 20 when me and my bro were born, and my sister 10 years later, yea it's hard and you do have to change things in you life for a child but i don't see them regreting it, and it has defently done nothing bad to there life (very thin walls sucks but whatever) and they are still close, hell even closer. i don't mean to be rude but she sounds like a ***** doing this and saying that have a child would be a curse, you defently need to talk to her like now cause none of this is right at all for anyone to do, at the same time i am glad she does not want to have a child, cause even though you have to change alot of things for a child and you body is never the same...so what i mean a child should never seem like a curse to anyone. that is just wrong and very selfish for her to say that or even think that. so yea talk to her, she needs a good talking to, and not only that she lied to you and she is doing something without even talking to you about it cause without a doubt you want a child but she is doing this behind your back as if it is no big deal. you really need to talk to her..the sooner the better. good luck luv..